After a heart wrenching break up or a series of challenging relationships, we often find ourselves becoming lost in the ugly mire of projecting negative thought patterns on the world around us and onto the being within us. How many of us have witnessed ourselves thinking “love does not really exist”…. “relationships are an illusion”….. “I will never find anyone”….
Although it may be deemed a natural response to move through this cycle of thought patterns, it is in the end (as we may realize), both unhealthy and limiting.
But then we do recover from it,some take time and some like me are just fortunate enough to have plethora of people around me who made me feel so happy about myself that it never affected me.And all this happened because of two lovely people in my life one ruby and one spc and i just want to share it out as it all happened over a cup of coffee.
Case 1 : THE SPC THERAPY
When i came down to kolkata, it was probably the worst phase of my life personally ,as i had been dumped big time and then i met a rocking and rollicking guy called SPC . He had such an easy going air about him that I also started to have a feel good factor about myself. How can i forget 2 a.m trips to CCD at Infinity towers where both of us would discuss out our worst phases of life and he would just make me laugh over it making me think what a dumb-ass I am and then what it became a routine of sorts where in everyday at mid-night we would go to CCD and talk all bullshit and nonsense with a 'I GIVE A DAMN ATTITUDE' and i had my self pride coming back to me. Though such trips have reuced we still make it a point to grace CCD at City Centre with our presence.
Case 2: THE RUBY EFFECT
As if one friend was not enough i found myself getting involved with one another girl this time. I dont know how because i had got a feeling that all girls are mean and for them all that matters is a fat purse and they just give a balls attitude to a guy's heart. But then this girl was separate, a no-fuss easy to hang out with girl, a girl with whom i became myself again, but then i always had a tingling that i cannot be serious about all this as i cannot afford to get myself hurt again. But then those trips to In&Out CCD have been awesome.I know she is always there even though this relationship does not culminate into that ultimate union. Those CCD trips have given me very nice and smiling moments. She always ensured that she took an extra effort to make sure i am at ease even though i have never reciprocated.
All i can say is life now is so good that i want it to continue as long as it can. Some people just enter your life and just become a part of it and they are one of them. They rightly say 'A LOT CAN HAPPEN OVER A CUP OF COFFEE' and a guess waht for me a lot has already happened over a cup of coffee :)
Although it may be deemed a natural response to move through this cycle of thought patterns, it is in the end (as we may realize), both unhealthy and limiting.
But then we do recover from it,some take time and some like me are just fortunate enough to have plethora of people around me who made me feel so happy about myself that it never affected me.And all this happened because of two lovely people in my life one ruby and one spc and i just want to share it out as it all happened over a cup of coffee.
Case 1 : THE SPC THERAPY
When i came down to kolkata, it was probably the worst phase of my life personally ,as i had been dumped big time and then i met a rocking and rollicking guy called SPC . He had such an easy going air about him that I also started to have a feel good factor about myself. How can i forget 2 a.m trips to CCD at Infinity towers where both of us would discuss out our worst phases of life and he would just make me laugh over it making me think what a dumb-ass I am and then what it became a routine of sorts where in everyday at mid-night we would go to CCD and talk all bullshit and nonsense with a 'I GIVE A DAMN ATTITUDE' and i had my self pride coming back to me. Though such trips have reuced we still make it a point to grace CCD at City Centre with our presence.
Case 2: THE RUBY EFFECT
As if one friend was not enough i found myself getting involved with one another girl this time. I dont know how because i had got a feeling that all girls are mean and for them all that matters is a fat purse and they just give a balls attitude to a guy's heart. But then this girl was separate, a no-fuss easy to hang out with girl, a girl with whom i became myself again, but then i always had a tingling that i cannot be serious about all this as i cannot afford to get myself hurt again. But then those trips to In&Out CCD have been awesome.I know she is always there even though this relationship does not culminate into that ultimate union. Those CCD trips have given me very nice and smiling moments. She always ensured that she took an extra effort to make sure i am at ease even though i have never reciprocated.
All i can say is life now is so good that i want it to continue as long as it can. Some people just enter your life and just become a part of it and they are one of them. They rightly say 'A LOT CAN HAPPEN OVER A CUP OF COFFEE' and a guess waht for me a lot has already happened over a cup of coffee :)
hey.................2mi boddo beshi bhalo lekho go.......................ami hoyto try koreo parbo na.......:)
ReplyDeleteits very important to have "such" frnz, who add that "life" to our existence