Love is just a calculation. Before you decide to get into 'something special' with someone, there are a certain things you calculate and derive calculations, depending on which you may or may not have a relationship.
First you calculate if the other person is good enough for you to date or not. Is he tall enough? Is she hot enough? Is he rich enough? Is she hot enough? Is he interesting/funny enough? Is she hot enough? Is he intelligent enough? Is she hot enough? Most people you meet never match your criteria you set.They are a total reject. But then there are you meet your criteria. And then a new set of calculations start. You calculate if getting into something with 'that' someone will affect your mental peace.
Would he treat me well? Would she be good at love? Would he care enough? Would she be too demanding? Would be to possessive? Would she be extra sensitive? Would he give me enough time? would she be too clingy?
And then the most popular question' WOULD THIS INTERFERE MY CAREER'?
And what if your loved one stays miles apart from you? You would anything and everything to make it work. The beginning is awesome with you never leaving your IM, telling your love how much you miss their presence. But it grows old and you start to struggle. And then again - CAREER.
But you like each other! So what is the solution ? A strictly open physical relationship that does not demand too much of your time and does not have a hassle of a real relationship.And you get all the perks!!! What can be better??
Ha! As if love follows a plan.
Basically the point is - Love cannot be planned. It is like gravity. You can try to go against it, but you really can't. You can jump off the cliff trying to fly but u will not and you will fall, which is inevitable. Similarly falling in love is inevitable.
And if you are smart enough to recognise that it is real, you should be smart enough to fight for it and never let it go.Life does not give you second chances.
Don't let love ever pass by you.
P.S.- This is dedicated to all those people who found true love,lost it and again fought for it to get it back. Thank you NIKITA SINGH and SANJAY YADAV
First you calculate if the other person is good enough for you to date or not. Is he tall enough? Is she hot enough? Is he rich enough? Is she hot enough? Is he interesting/funny enough? Is she hot enough? Is he intelligent enough? Is she hot enough? Most people you meet never match your criteria you set.They are a total reject. But then there are you meet your criteria. And then a new set of calculations start. You calculate if getting into something with 'that' someone will affect your mental peace.
Would he treat me well? Would she be good at love? Would he care enough? Would she be too demanding? Would be to possessive? Would she be extra sensitive? Would he give me enough time? would she be too clingy?
And then the most popular question' WOULD THIS INTERFERE MY CAREER'?
And what if your loved one stays miles apart from you? You would anything and everything to make it work. The beginning is awesome with you never leaving your IM, telling your love how much you miss their presence. But it grows old and you start to struggle. And then again - CAREER.
But you like each other! So what is the solution ? A strictly open physical relationship that does not demand too much of your time and does not have a hassle of a real relationship.And you get all the perks!!! What can be better??
Ha! As if love follows a plan.
Basically the point is - Love cannot be planned. It is like gravity. You can try to go against it, but you really can't. You can jump off the cliff trying to fly but u will not and you will fall, which is inevitable. Similarly falling in love is inevitable.
And if you are smart enough to recognise that it is real, you should be smart enough to fight for it and never let it go.Life does not give you second chances.
Don't let love ever pass by you.
P.S.- This is dedicated to all those people who found true love,lost it and again fought for it to get it back. Thank you NIKITA SINGH and SANJAY YADAV
